Who never had an orgasm raise their hand

Female orgasm. It's a tricky thing to achieve. Why? Because most men don't know the first thing abut how to give women pleasure. Most men think that vaginal intercourse does the trick. After all, that's what they see in almost all the movies.

So the women are left frustrated by the fact that they can't come and they get angry at their partners for not knowing how to make them finish.

Most women would never ever admit that they never had an orgasm or that they only have orgasms when they masturbate. They won't admit because all the women in movies are capable of having an orgasm after brief vaginal stimulation... and that almost never happen in real life. Also, they won't admit because they think the women they know also have amazing orgasms each and every time they have sex.

Women don't admit they don't have orgasms or even lie about having orgasms because the pressure to have an orgasm is so big that they can't stand it. It's like not only your partner expects you to have an orgasm, but also his friends, your friends, gynecologists, your parents and God knows who else. So, as a woman, you can't just disappoint all those people. So you either fake it or lie about it.

The truth about female orgasm is however different... Four in ten women have sexual dissatisfactions of some type.
I don't think that there's a woman on Earth that can say she always had orgasms, in every sexual encounter. Just don't think that's possible.

I think that every woman, at least once in her life wanted an orgasm and didn't get it. It might happen because the lack of interest from the partner, hormonal changes in the woman's body or who knows what else.

If you're a woman and are having trouble reaching orgasm you should know that you're not alone. Many women have problems with their sex-life, the lack of orgasm is just one of them.

You might also want to know that difficulties in having an orgasm are not selective. The fact that a woman can't have an orgasm is not based on the fact that she's a certain age or race, that she has a sexual orientation or another that she had hundreds of men or she just had her first sexual experience.

I don't know how it feels for a woman who never had an orgasm. Orgasm is not the main purpose for making love but it is a beautiful �bonus� of it.

The fact that women orgasms are �famous� now I think can only increase the sense of frustration in the women who have never experience it.

But I also know that women are fighters. So women who can not achieve orgasm can definitely begin a quest from which they'll hopefully emerge as happier and more fulfilled human beings.

I suggest women who have trouble with experiencing orgasms start looking for ways in which they can get to enjoy orgasm. The thing they must remember though is that no man wants his woman to fake orgasm. Every man I know is happy that he can give his woman real and powerful orgasms.

Some women might find the help of women who do experience orgasm as a confidence booster. You might want to find out what these women do to achieve orgasms. However you should not feel compelled to �mold� yourself to a type of pleasure that doesn't represent you. You should be totally comfortable with the ways you use to get to orgasm.

Sometimes you just need to find out what you like and be happy about it. Many women do things that they don't like but they do them anyway because their partners like it. The important thing as far as I am concerned is that the woman is happy and fulfilled because if she is, she will give her partner more pleasure too.

Other times you might need to overcome or even forget everything you have been taught about sexuality. Sexuality must come from inside the person, not be learned by heart from magazines or TV. Your sexuality can develop if you know how to give yourself pleasure. So masturbation should give you a �hands on� knowledge about what makes you have an orgasm, where you like to be touched, where you don't like to be touched, what you fantasize about and so on. Also, knowing how your genitals are constructed, how they look like is a very important part in the journey to orgasm.

Also, you might not be able to experience orgasm not only because of psychological impairments, but also because of physiological impairments.

For example, did you know that heart conditions can influence your ability to have an orgasm?
Other factors that can influence for the worst are : birth control pills, some prescription pills, stress, the poor health of your genitals, lack of sufficient body fat, hormonal problems etc.

As you can see, the factors i mentioned don't only affect mature women, they can also affect teenagers.
You must be aware of the fact that your ability to experience orgasm is also influenced by the health of your entire body.

As I have showed before, it's quite likely that we're born with the ability to have orgasms and we know how to masturbate from the womb. At birth orgasm comes as a reflex, a response to stimulation. If sexual tension builds up as a result of sexual stimulation we have an orgasm.

Things get trickier as we grow up. Orgasm is no longer a reflex response, it becomes a conditional response. In adults orgasm is not only a result of stimulation, it's more or less dictated by society and what we know is right and wrong.

Everything we've learned over the years about sexuality and about our bodies comes to haunt our sexual lives and ability to have orgasms.

As grownups not only we're expected to do things in a certain way, but we also expect from ourselves to do things in a certain way. So if we don't think it's right to have an orgasm as a result of masturbation we probably won't have orgasms when we masturbate.

So, in a nutshell, we make up these �conditions� that need to be fulfilled if we are to enjoy sexual intercourse and orgasm. If not.. no arousal, no pleasure from sex, no orgasm.

Adults tend to over think what they do. As children, even if we didn't know what masturbation was, we just kept doing it because it felt good, we didn't think about what the consequences are.

Now we have sex because we anticipate the consequence... pleasure and orgasm.

What I'm saying is that while on a conscious level we want to make love the unconscious level might stop us from doing so. The unconscious is quite powerful and it can prevent us from doing what we want do do based on what we were told about a subject. So in order for us to enjoy all our sexual experiences we must make the wants of our body and the wants of our mind �get along�.

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