The perfect first time

For most people “the first time” is something they remember for the rest of their life. Both if it's a pleasant experience and if it's not.

So what I think you should do to enhance your first sexual experience?

Well, first you have to find a place where you won't be disturbed. Turn off your phones and pagers. You should also have room to lie comfortably next to each other.

The room must not be brightly lit, but not dark either. You can light some candles. You don't want your first sexual experience to happen in the dark. Why not? Because not only the visual stimuli are very important for arousal, but you also want to know what is happening to you and your partner.

If you're not happy with the thought of being naked in front of your partner than you're not ready to have intercourse.

You can relax drinking ONE glass of wine or champagne or taking a shower or a bath together. During the shower, rinse each other's genitals with warm water.

After the shower you might want to dress with sexy lingerie.

You should try to keep a permanent contact with your lovers body, kiss him and touch him.

You can also give each other a body massage. You can explore your partner's body, but only with light touches.

A thing you need to do is to have an orgasm before you actually engage in vaginal intercourse. This will help relax your body and make penetration easier.

You can either bring each other to orgasm or you can masturbate to orgasm.

How you do it is not so important. It's important that you do it.

Masturbation and orgasm prior to vaginal penetration relaxes the muscles of the vagina and lessens the chance of the man ejaculating too fast during vaginal intercourse.

The first experience with intercourse should be done with the woman in control. That way she can control what she and her partner are doing.

So I suggest you try to use the ”woman on top” position the first time. That way the woman can control how fast she is penetrated.

You might also want to try this: the woman is on her hand and knees and her partner behind her. In this position the man should stand still and let the woman take the penis inside at her own pace. This is not as comfortable though.

Of course, the missionary is a good position to have the first experience with vaginal penetration but it is not likely to give the woman an orgasm.

OK, now back to you guys.

After you have had an orgasm it's good to keep in contact with each other. Although the woman might be ready for an orgasm right away, the man needs some time to recover.

Once you are both aroused again, the man should lay on his back and the woman can sit on his thighs.

In that position she can stimulate her vulva and clitoris, or her partner can do it.

Now is a good time to put on a condom. The man should stimulate his penis or the woman can stroke it for him.

When the woman feels she is coming close to orgasm she should stand up and carefully move over the penis and slowly lower herself over it. Her partner should guide her while doing this.

The touching of the clitoris and vulva shouldn't stop. Once the penis is inside the vagina the woman can choose to sit still or move. Just rocking the hips should be enough. Stimulation of the clitoris and vulva should be continued until the woman has an orgasm.

If the man did not have an orgasm until that point she can move slowly on the penis until he does. If the woman feels uncomfortable doing that the woman can use oral stimulation or manual stimulation until the man reaches orgasm.

This is just a suggestion. You must not take this as the only way or the best way.

Just do whatever feels natural and comfortable for both.

Don't forget however that it's very important the woman is sexually aroused and ready for vaginal penetration.

Don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If reading this page you didn't find it appealing and you don't think that this is the way you want to start your sexual life than simply don't do it like this.

You may only want to feel your partner close to you, then the missionary will seem more appealing to you. You might want to focus on the feelings your partner's penis gives you, then you won't want any other type of stimulation to occur at the same time.

We've only talked about what women might want and feel during their first sexual experience.

Let's talk a little about men.

The first sexual experience for men can also be stressful if not “handled” right.

The pressure men feel to “perform good” during their first sexual encounter can make them have erection problems or ejaculation problems.

The best possible way for a man to “fix” these problems is to communicate with the woman he is with.

He should not feel ashamed to tell her that it is his first sexual experience and that not only she, but he also need tender guiding.

If the first sexual experience for a man is with an older woman he might feel less stressed.

By the way, did you know that it's more likely for men who have their first sexual experience with a woman his age or smaller to experience premature ejaculation.

The thing about social pressure that is applied for women goes for men too.

They're basically forced by some crooked “models” in our society to believe that they're sex machines.

While this may become true after years of experience is definitely not true at the first sexual experience.

COMMENTS

alx
i want my penis harder because is bigger enough but i can't satisfy the woen i sleep with i want to be able to do that plz help me now

Alex's answer:

You'll need to do stamina exercises. You'll find a list of stamina exercises with video instructions HERE.

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