Have no fear

You know how lucky newborns are? They have no worries and they don't have anyone expecting them to act a certain way. With grownups it's a whole other ball game... we know what society thinks about a thing and if we don't do it the way we're required we're looked at as being strange to say the least.

The things we are told make us act a certain way. If we're told that masturbation and sex are bad things and that we'll rot in hell if we even think about doing them we'll probably grow up to be sexually inhibited adults who don't find any pleasure in making love and masturbation, only fear, frustration and shame.

You know about the past views about women?
The woman should stay at home, cook, clean and make babies. So women were like some appliances that had to sacrifice everything they wanted just to make the man they married happy. That leads me to believe that most women did not have fulfilling sexual lives.

That mentality has sadly been passed to daughters and nieces.

I hope that your knowledge about sexuality does not resume to making love to have babies. I hope that your sexuality has been allowed to develop, that you were not pressured to act a certain way, that you were allowed to discover the beauty and pleasure that come with lovemaking.

Did you know that nerve pathways that carry stimuli to the brain may deteriorate if they're not used?

Well, to tell you the truth, before documenting for this article I didn't know that. But it does make sense.

The nerve pathways function just as any part of our body. If you had your hand in a cast for a long period of time you would know that when the cast is taken of the hand has shrunk and needs some time to get back to normal.

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But enough about men.

Let's get back to what really interests us now.

Think about this : you know how it's perfectly normal for men to talk about their penis, to hold it while they pee.

Now think about how even you, who must have an opened mind to sexuality react when a girl or woman talks about their vagina, vulva, clitoris or even breasts. That's equally true if you're a man and if you're a woman.

So I was saying that the less frequently you �put to work� the connections between your sexual organs and your brain, the less pleasure will be felt in time. One can even end up �numb�, no matter how powerful the stimulation is.

So if you want to become a sexual woman, a woman that enjoys even the slightest sexual stimulation you must learn to transmit the stimuli from the genitals to the brain.

To do that you must stimulate your genitals as often as you can and in every way that brings you pleasure. You must forget everything you have learned and begin learning what feels good, what makes you feel happy.

It's also important that you learn to masturbate for the pleasure it brings you, to be able to masturbate without guilt and without wanting to reach orgasm.

Masturbate for the pleasure before orgasm, for the feelings, sensations and images it brings in your mind.

You should discover your body, your sensuality and sexuality just like your lover should. The more you know about your body and about what brings you pleasure the happier and more fulfilled you'll be.

And the best thing about sexual stimulation is that it can never be enough and with every experience you're more likely to discover other wonderful things about your sexuality.

So if you can't feel a thing when your lover touches you you might need more stimulation. You can get that extra stimulation by using a vibrator.

The vibrator is a very useful tool for women who have problems with reaching orgasm by gentle stimulation.

The intense stimulation a vibrator provides should be enough to �upgrade� the connections between brain and genitals.

So after the woman learns to experience orgasm using a vibrator she will most likely be able to experience orgasm using less intense stimulation.

But if the connections are damaged or deficient orgasm might only be possible using the vibrator. This is not unusual or strange an women with this problem should not feel in any way less feminine or sensual.

This should not be a reason for blaming yourself, it should be a reason for accepting the fact that you are sensual and sexual and learn to make the most of it.

Besides the psychical reasons for lack of genital sensitivity there are the physical reasons for which a woman might not experience orgasm after gentle stimulation.

One of those reasons is the fact that the body doesn't produce enough sexual hormones. Sexual hormones like estrogen and testosterone are also responsible for the health and sensitivity of the vulva and clitoris.

Sexual pleasure can be greatly influenced by the usage of birth control pills, some prescription drugs and health problems.

Some doctors �omit� to tell their patients about the side effects the drugs they prescribe. And sometimes those side effects might be in the area of sexuality and sensibility.

The est thing you can do when you get your prescription is to ask the doctor if the drugs has prescribed have any side effects where libido and sex � drive are concerned.

Also. It is very important fro parents who want their teenage daughters to have healthy sex � lives to ask the physician if the drugs he has prescribed for their daughter have any side effects to begin with, and side � effects in the area of sensuality and sexuality.

But the most important thing of all is to lose the fear of touching your genitals or being in sexual situations. The fear is most likely the thing that stops you from having a fulfilling sex � life.

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