• Female anatomy
• Orgasm
• Breasts issues
• How to stimulate the breasts
• Masturbation at women
• Children and masturbation
• How to masturbate
• Make her finish
• Who's to blame
• How to achieve female orgasm
• Who never had an orgasm raise their hand
• Have no fear
• Get to know yourself
• Does sexual desire matter?
• Get in the mood
• The elusive orgasm

But it's not just about sex... at least it shouldn't be.

You should also take as much time as you take getting in the mood for lovemaking to get in the mood for masturbating.

Let me give you a little insight on how the male mind works...

Setting aside the arousal caused by our girlfriends/wifes/mistresses we also have other ways of getting “horny”. These ways are especially helpful when our “one and only” is not next to us. I don't see any reasons for which what men do can't work for women too.

Insight no.1
Fantasize

And I don't mean “I see myself having huge house with 12 cars in my garage and 5 wives... “
I mean “Amazing woman doing whatever I ask her to do. So if i tell her to take off her clothes and...” you get my point.

Erotic fantasies are so so important for men. Fantasizing alone can make us hard... so fantasizing should get you wet and in the mood.

Just think about something that arouses you and try to add to that more and more things that are equally arousing. Make you own sex or lovemaking scenario.

You might get some ideas from novels.

Watch porn
I heard that “Typically... men...pfui!” from here.
Don't blame me, it's the universal truth. Men do get horny (to say the least) when they watch porn. Why shouldn't you get horny watching porn?

You might be too prude but I suggest you give it a try... it's a whole new world... but just don't start thinking “That girl has huge breasts, mine are so small”. Trust me, men never think “Look at that guy's dick, it's huge, mine is so small.” if we did we'd all be frustrated zombies.

Just look at porn because you might see something you like and want to try and because, as much as you might not want to admit it, it does turn you on.

Think about sex
Not like ”Sex... yeah... oh... have to pick up the kids from school...”

Noooo... rewind to Fantasize... like really think about sex... with all the hot and kinky details. At least that's what we do. Even in our sleep. Did you know that during sleep a man can have up to 6 erections? Not to mention that I read somewhere that men think about sex every 6 seconds.

I rest my case.

O.K.
So now what? You're horny as hell... what next?
I'm going to treat the next paragraphs as a “masturbation lesson”.
How can you learn to masturbate?
The thing that first comes to my mind is reading what other women do when they masturbate. If you think it will help you, you can check out the “How do it” page on this site. You'll find that there is no “wrong way to masturbate”. There are only different ways to masturbate for different and unique women. Now, don't get me wrong, if you find something you like don't try to invent something just because you read here that every woman is different and has a different technique.

You might also want to look at videos of women masturbating. It can be a very interesting and full of information experience.

You might also want to start exploring your body.
Enjoy the smoothness of your skin, the color of your skin, the smell, everything about you, don't hurry to stimulate the clitoris.

Touch all your body, touch your breasts, your nipples, thighs. Put your cupped hand on your vulva, feel its warmth, enjoy the feel of your pubic hair.

Before you can touch your clitoris you want to be fully aroused and lubricated.

Your goal at this time is not orgasm, just pleasure. If a part of your body doesn't give you pleasure while caressed begin touching other parts of your body.

You also be relaxed while doing this. If you get tensed just stop and breathe as we talked earlier until you find that you are relaxed again.

You want to experience pleasure and at the same time feel relaxed. Don't do this exploration exercise for more than 20 minutes. You don't want to get tired or stressed. If you get aroused it's good, but this shouldn't make you feel like you need to pursuit orgasm.

When you feel comfortable with touching your body try going one step further. You want a more direct stimulation on your vulva. You can begin playing with your inner labia. Try pulling them softly and running the tips of your fingers over them. You can now slowly work your way to the clitoris feeling everything as you go up. Feel how warm it is, feel the texture.

Using slow motions, touch the whole surface of the clitoris. Move your hands up and down on it, try circular motions, everything that goes through your head and feels good. You must try something before knowing if it feels good or not. If you feel like you need something inside you can put one finger inside your vagina.

Remember you must stay relaxed. If you're tensing up relax by breathing. And remember that your goal is not orgasm, only pleasure. You want to stop if you begin to consciously think about having an orgasm. I know it's kinda' hard to do, but just stop the stimulation and think about... I tell the guys to think about bunnies so you girls should think about.. kittens... or whatever makes you take your mind off orgasm.

It's also a good idea to masturbate for a few minutes... let's say 10 minutes, then take a break for 5 minutes, then restart stimulation. Your goal should be to be able to masturbate for 30 minutes without tensing up and without thinking “Now I'm going to go a little faster because I know that makes me come.”

You also need to stop if you feel your fingers get tired.

Don't try to have an orgasm the first few times you do this exercise, because if you do it right it won't happen.

Only focus on the pleasure you're feeling, the pleasure you can give yourself.
And don't try to hard. It's not a race, it's just you pleasing yourself.

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