• What is virginity?
• Do you have what it takes?
• Enter... the partner
• The perfect first time
• The truth about vaginal intercourse
• Orgasm aid

I can only tell you what I think.
I think the man you choose to be your first sexual partner should be a man with who you can openly talk, a man who you know understands you and wants to make you happy.

It's also a good idea to choose a man with who you had a long relationship prior to you deciding to begin your sex – life.

The ideal sex partner should be the man with who you can see yourself for a few years from now, with who you can talk and laugh, who makes you feel good just by holding your hand.

Also, the man you choose must know you almost as or as good as he knows himself. That's why exploring each other's sexuality prior to engaging in intercourse is also a good idea.

If you're “not sure“ about the man you want to have intercourse then he's not the right man.

If you postpone all sexual activities until you're 20 or older it's most likely you don't know anything about intercourse, so it's better not to “jump into it”.

The best thing you can do is take it one step at a time. Get to know yourself, your body.

If you never engaged in sexual activities, alone or with your partner, it means you'll have high expectations for when it finally happens. Experimenting also makes you know what you should expect, with good and bad experiences.

If you decide to be a virgin when you get married, I suggest you don't feel the obligation to have sexual intercourse in your wedding night. You'll most likely be tired and stressed and if you read what I've written so far you know that frustration and negative tension can only harm a relationship. Instead, after you're married, you and your husband should take it slow and get to know each other before deciding to engage in intercourse.

Sexual incompatibility is also a big drawback you can face if you have not experimented prior to the wedding.

Sex is a very important part of a couple's everyday life. Think about it, you're stuck with the man you married, but you don't like making love to him. How does that make you feel.

There's a saying: ”Try the car before you buy it”. And the nasty thing is that a car you can sell if you don't like it... but what about your husband.

Sexual experience and sexual compatibility are one of the most important aspects in the life of any couple. If you ignore that fact, you'll end up not wanting to go to bed with your husband at all.

One way you can find out if you and your partner are “a perfect match” is to make a list. Silly, but it works. Let me give you a hand: here's how it should look like:

• Thing I definitely want to do

• Things I might try

• Things I don't even want to hear about

It's good... obviously when both of you have matching lists. It's bad when the things you want to try your partner doesn't even want to hear about. Also, it's not good when your partner wants to try the whole Kama Sutra and you only want to try the missionary.

You can also add to your list the answers to these questions : How often do you masturbate?; How often do you have sexual thoughts or fantasy?; How often do you become aroused?; How often do you desire partner sex?

You must be completely honest while writing the list, if you want to have a really good prediction about where your relationship is heading that is.

You might also want to do this list over time, because you know that expectations and desires change.

I'm sure that, at one point in your life you have heard that the first time you bleed and it hurts. If you're told that too many times it's likely you'll start to believe it.

As far I was told by a countless number of women, the bleeding is not so bad, nor is the pain. Then I started to read about this, and guess what? The same thing... pain during the first sexual experience is not normal. That is exaggerated pain. Some discomfort is normal, extreme pain is not.

The pain and bleeding occur when the hymen is teared. 50% of women do experience bleeding the first time they engage in vaginal intercourse. Bleeding may sometimes occur when the vulva or vaginal wall are hurt.

The bleeding is not severe, around a tablespoon. During each period you lose 4 table spoons. Abundant bleeding is not normal.

How can you avoid pain and bleeding? Don't have sex... just kidding.

The goal is to avoid pain. The means to do so is to stretch the hymen and vagina before having intercourse. You need to be sexually aroused to do this. When you become aroused begin to masturbate. Now lubricate one finger with a water based lubricant and slowly try to insert it inside your vagina. With one hand you should be caressing your clitoris and with one finger from your other hand you should explore your vagina.

Start moving your finger or fingertip inside your vagina trying to spread the walls. Think that your vagina is the center of a clock and you want to move your finger towards every number on the clock. Move your finger toward every “number” gently, you shouldn't feel pain.

If you can't insert your finger just try to gently push your finger inside your vagina. In a week or so you should be able to put your finger inside your vagina.

shamman
you get the girl i'll get the methods :=)

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